Saturday, August 25, 2007

“Chaste but Chic?” Gimme a break.

Have you been hearing about this so-called “modesty movement?” Of course I’m all for providing alternatives to Bratz style clothes (have you seen the latest Sticker Sisters t-shirts?), but this “modesty movement” makes me gag.

They’re trying to push a "chaste but chic" dress code on girls. Not surprising that this movement is connected to faith-based organizations and abstinence only advocates. But perhaps the scariest part is that the mother of the modesty movement, Wendy Shalit, is still trying to blame sexual harassment and rape on women’s "lack of modesty." And here I thought we were past that ridiculous idea that a women is "asking for it" if she wears a short skirt. Ugh.

Ann Ream (founder of Voices and Faces Project) says it well in the LA Times:

"Scratch the surface [of the modesty movement], and what's supposed to be good for girls reveals itself to be all about the boys: dressing in a way that doesn't over-excite them, demurring so that their manhood remains intact and holding tight to our sexuality until we find a husband who is worthy of that ultimate 'prize.'"

More
LA Times: "The false modesty movement"
Talk of the Nation: "Modern Girls and the Modesty Movement"

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1 Comments:

At 8:53 AM, Blogger Pixie LaRouge said...

I stumbled over here in a roundabout way and have enjoyed what I've read. I have a tiny, mighty five-year-old girl that I'm trying to raise to be a tiny, mighty woman. I HATE the clothing that is marketed to girls these days! There's so much that's just... tacky. I will not allow my five-year-old to dress like a tramp. Neither will I force her to dress like it's 1900. Why is so much either sleazy, cutesie, or too young? Where are the dresses that work with leggings (she loves pink and purple and ribbons and dresses, but wants to climb the monkey bars and go down the slide upside down while wearing her hot pink power boots and her urban-chic black plaid)? Where are the pants that fit without trying to make a child's butt look like a college girl's butt? *sigh* How do we raise girls to be strong, allow them to be feminine or girly at times, and keep them from being sexualized? And how do I raise my two sons to value that kind of woman?
Thanks for selling bitchin' products that support mighty girls :)

 

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